Saturday, July 28, 2012

The Same Mistake

Have you had a situation in life
Where you made the same mistake many times
Never learning from it
Because it promised you a future
A future you built in your head?
A future very dear to you
And by that very definition very close to your heart?
Lured by that bait, you allowed yourself
To be fooled over and over again?
How many more times should you repeat it
Before it finally dawns on you
That it's a pipe dream?
Or is it just that one more chance?
One more try for it to work?
Or is it never going to work?
To be honest, can you make it work by trying?
Shouldn't that be natural? Then why should you make it work?
If it is, it is. If it isn't, it isn't?
How can you be sure of either?
Or if you're not sure, then it isn't?
Do you trust the same person twice?
If they were able to break you once
Why won't they do it again?
What's the guarantee?
Is it better then to give a fresh chance to another stranger?
How do you explain to yourself
The compulsive need to be confused
Because confusion still gives you hope?
So you don't cut the cord and string along with hope.
Is hope a good thing then in this context
Or is it the straight route to disillusionment?
But then if you really want something you don't have
Surely you have the right to hope or wish for it?
What are the odds I'll find the one?
I am now willing to bet that the odds of the one finding me are better.
I have to stop looking
I have to stop hoping
I have to have faith
Unconditional faith in the unknown
To deliver when the time is right.
Because I have to believe that it's true
And belief and doubt don't co-exist.
Because what's mine is mine and what isn't mine is never going to become mine?
But then what is mine really?
What did I bring into the world for me to claim as mine?
More importantly what is it that I'm going to take away?
Then the whole concept of belonging to someone is a sham?

As always I turn to spirituality
To answer the questions science can't explain.
I believe the purpose of my life is to flow
Flow unhindered
Flow without fear
Flow without holding on to people or things
Flow without stagnation
Accepting everything that comes my way
Float with joy
Knowing that eventually
I'll find my way home.
True to my nature
I prepare for the other possibility too.
Even if I don't reach my destination
Maybe my hope will be enough to get me through the journey.
Maybe when I do reach the end of the journey
I will find that the journey was destination enough.

29 July, 2012

Thursday, April 5, 2012

I Know Why

I was demanding something out of life.
Something that I thought was mine to ask.
Something that I thought I was ready for.
Now I know I was not.
Now I know I am still not
Because I haven't yet found what I was looking for.
Now I know it's a good thing I did not get what I wanted.
I'd have messed up what I had
Had I gotten what I was looking for when I was looking for it.

For once in my life,
I appreciate that life's timing is not my timing.
There will be a time lag between
When I ask for something out of life
And when life decides to bestow what I want on me.
And that's a good thing
Because there are things running in the background
That I need to understand
Things not necessarily immediately apparent
To the eye of reasoning.

I trust life's timing
I know now it's better than my understanding
Of my own needs and desires at any point in time.
I'm willing to wait for what I want
For as long as is necessary
Simply because I know now
That I need to learn what I need to learn
While I wait for what I want.

I will ask for what I want from you life
I know I will update what I want too
Based on my experience of what
You are teaching me.
My priorities will change.
My needs will change.

All I know is I will celebrate
Whatever it is that you give me
When you choose to give me
Because that may not be what I asked for
But certainly that's what's best for me in the bigger scheme of things.

I thank you life
For the time lag
I thank you for looking out for me
I thank you for having my back.
I honor your will
And I rejoice in your judgment.


Monday, March 19, 2012

I Trust in You

I don't know who you are
How old, how you look, where you are right now.
I know I can't find you just by looking for you
Or wishing for you.
I have to wait it out
And learn all that I have to
So I can appreciate what you are
When you find me.

I know I want to give up
To settle for much much less than what I started out to get.
All the disappointments, disillusionment,
All the people in my life who want me to give up
Who don't want me to believe you exist
Will never get to me because I know
I have to trust in you.

I trust in you
To find me
I trust you are the only one for me in this lifetime
Because with you I can be me
And not have to worry
About the zillion other things
Other women in the world worry about
But refuse to admit even to themselves.

I will wait for you
Maybe even forever
Because I know there's no one else
I can live with.
I know you are the one for me
I don't have a choice but to trust in you.
To be honest, that is the truth.

I trust in you.


Sunday, January 15, 2012


I want to be a believer
I want to believe that good things can and will happen to me.
And just because they happened, they are not going to go away.
I want to believe that my present and future are not dictated by my past.
I do not want to punish someone for someone else's mistakes
Or for the lessons life determined I should learn.
I wish to be naive, I want to believe once more.
How do I let go of fear?
How do I learn to trust once again?
To have faith when an aspect of my life
Has always broken me without fail?
What is going to make this time different?
I feel like I am going to fall
From a greater height this time
I do fear I won't survive
But I know I will.
I wish this is the last time I have to trust and not see it break
And pray what's in my life is here to stay.